I
am told that I was born on the 19th September 1923 in Frimley,
Surrey otherwise it might have been a few days earlier on the steps of the
Staff College after a Ball. My father, Cyril was then posted to Catterick Camp.
My brother, Bobby, sister Joan and I moved to Richmond, Yorkshire with my
mother and nurse. Shortly afterwards, the second batta1ion South Wales
Borderers was posted out to India. I can remember bits of the sea journey,
climbing all over the boat to the worry of my mother and the 'gulligulli' man,
Aden, playing tricks. When we arrived in Bangalore we had a large bungalow with
tennis court and stables. I had my own servant to look after me as well as an
'ayah' (an Indian nurse) who threatened me if I misbehaved. I remember being
given a donkey for a birthday present who always joined us for breakfast on the
veranda for a banana. My father and Bobby would go hunting for jackal. They
would also, with my mother, play tennis and golf, and I can remember being
taken to a large fort when my father went shooting where I would collect the
cartridge cases to play 'soldiers'. My 'boy' or servant had made me a tree
house – my only complaint was that he did not supply it with running water!
In
the summer, we went up in the hills to Simla. I can remember bits of the long
journey, the crowded stations and trains and the heat. I have little memory of
Simla except Joan and I got ringworm and had to wear skullcaps much to the
distress of our parents. I still remember visiting the Taj Mahal and climbing
one of the minarets with other visitors descending causing a scrum. One day
back in Bangalore, I was placed in a box on wheels by my dear brother,
harnessed to the donkey and set loose round the tennis court with predictable
results! Also, I sat on the back of a bicycle and let my legs dangle between the
frame and the spokes and damaged my ankle (75 years later I still have the
scar).
After
3 years in India, we were obliged to move back to England. My father stayed on
as Brigade Major to General Bannertine and his young daughter, Ruth, who many
years later we met in Swanage and ran the Tilly Whim pub.
First,
when we arrived in England, my mother found little or no help from my father's
brothers who had sold his inheritance i.e. a Welsh cottage to pay for his own
education at Blundells. This was the time of the Depression after the Wall
Street Crash and the country was in bad way. Luckily, Aunt Trixie took pity on
us and we stayed with her family in Ashford, Middx. This was not for long as we
then all went to Malines in Belgium where Aunt Gladys had a large house and
family. Uncle Leon was a successful brewer and he had 6 sons. Unfortunately,
the eldest died of asphyxiation from fumes from the boiler. Joan stayed with
our granny who lived in a flat around the comer in the main square. From time
to time there would be the Flemish rallies, which we would watch from the
window.
I
enjoyed my time with the Janssen family: Peter was Joan's age, and I got on
well with Raymond and Philip. It was time for us to be sent to school and Joan
& I were sent to a convent. I don't recommend the experience. I knew no
French, was used to a civilized life and good food. Luckily, at an early age of
6, one is able to forget the loneliness etc. except for the brief weekly visit
from my sister with a bar of Côte d'Or chocolate. I suppose I have managed to
eradicate most of my memories of my time in the convent. The inability to
communicate with fellow pupils, slates to write on which I didn't understand,
church two or three times a day, a bath once a week wearing my shirt for modesty,
outside loos into pits and nuns, nuns, nuns!
Eventually
after two years of misery, my mother brought us back to England to be
reintroduced to my father. By now I had lost most of my English and I suppose I
spoke some sort of guttural French, which my father didn't understand. During
our stay in Belgium I never saw Bobby and I later heard that he had been sent
to college in Bruges, tried to run away and kept there for the time we were in
Belgium.
For
a short time my father served for the SWB in Victoria Barracks, Southsea and I
was sent to St. John's College as dayboy. I probably sat in the class, not
understanding a single word. I might have met my future wife 18 years earlier
if only I had roller-skated on the Common there as she was living about half a
mile away.
The
Regiment was moved to Catterick Camp and I got scarlet fever and went to
hospital in Portsmouth only to find, when I woke up, that I was in a ward with
a weird selection of mental cases. I was only about 8 years old at the time!
Eventually, I was put on a train to London in the care of the guard where I was
met by Aunt Trixie and then sent on in the guard's van to Richmond, Yorkshire –
a long journey on a very hard seat.
We
moved to a major's house in Hague Road with a maid and a batman for my father.
We also acquired a spaniel, Chum, and my mother bought an old Austin Seven. I
was sent to Richmond grammar school and have no recollection of my time there.
I probably, once again, sat in the back of the class not actually understanding
a word. However, my only memory was the singing of 'Jerusalem' at morning
assembly.
I
now gather from Joan that my father was to be posted to Hong Kong to join the
regiment but decided that due to family commitments he would leave the army and
become a secretary of the Territorial Association at Finsbury Barracks. We all
moved to London to a top floor flat in Elgin Avenue. Bobby went to work for
Charringtons Coal and Joan to a local school. I went to a small day prep school
run by a retired Naval commander. By this time I started to understand English
but I had a tutor once a week to try, poor chap, to help me to read 'Treasure
Island' for half a crown an hour. Having moved from country to country and
school to school, I can at last say that I met a friend, Dennis Welsh, at
school. He and his twin sister, Priscilla, would spend many hours at our flat.
I loved playing with my Meccano and started making crystal sets and buying
earphones, wire and 'cats whiskers' from street markets in the Edgware Road.
Life
changed when my mother's uncle Dick died in Gibraltar leaving her and her two
sisters some money in his will. We moved to 18 Ladbroke Road, Notting Hill
Gate, a nice terrace house with four bedrooms, long sitting room with a dining
and kitchen in the semi-basement. I also had a shed in the yard, which was my
pride & joy where I spent many happy hours knocking bits of wood together.
I also had my first bicycle.
Having
spent my early life in a convent with nuns I was sent to Ealing Priory School,
part of Downside run by monks. What little I learnt was due to being beaten.
Little did anyone realize in those days that although I could be quite
practical, I found it difficult to read or write. No one in those days had
heard of Dyslexia.
Bobby
decided he wanted to join the RAF and after studying and taking the entrance
exam he passed first into Cranwell. Joan was sent to Switzerland to a finishing
school.
On the 8th May 1939, we received the tragic
news that Bobby had been killed in a flying collision. This tragedy happened
only days before he was due to receive the Sword of Honour at the passing out
parade. As can be imagined, we were absolutely shattered and, as I learnt
later, my father had a slight stroke as a result. However, after a short
holiday, he returned to active service in the rank of Colonel due to the
impending talk of War and became an AQMG to 52nd London Division.
During
the summer holidays, we would go either to Eastbourne or, on two occasions
before the War, to Brittany. On the second occasion we got back from St. Malo
on a tramp steamer two days before War was declared. My father had not received
orders to return to England due to a lost telegram.
When
we arrived back in London we went around the shops looking for blackout
material as we expected bombs to drop on London at any time. However, all was
well but we decided to evacuate 'Chum' to kennels in Sussex. A few days later
he was back, barking outside the house, somehow having walked many miles
through London to find us. He stayed with us until he died on the steps of the
War Office in 1944 at the ripe old age of 16, and I shed a tear when I heard
the news while serving in Italy.
When
War was declared, Joan was posted to the ATS and then shortly afterwards became
a member of the WRAF. My parents then thought it would be a good idea if I
learnt how to pass an exam for my future. They decided to send me to one of the
most expensive 'crammers' in England at Glen Arun in Horsham with students
mainly from Eton & Harrow who also hoped to pass the School Certificate.
The teaching staff had studied in detail the past examination papers and as a
result formed a pretty good idea of likely questions. While living in this
large luxury house, which included a butler and maids, we were taught how to
pass exams. This was at the time of the Battle of Britain and at the time all
we were conscious of were the trails in the sky of dogfights.
One
day, we received a call on the wireless by Anthony Eden to report to the police
station to volunteer for the Local Defence Volunteers to protect the
countryside. In time we were issued with armbands and later with battledress,
which were either under or over-sized. I remember being on guard on Manning
Heath Golf Course at four o'clock in the morning armed with a broomstick with a
kitchen knife attached, waiting for German Paratroopers to land. We also made
'Molotov Cocktails' using bottles filled with petrol and oil with a short wick
to light to throw at tanks if we could get near enough.
I
returned to Ladbroke Road during the holidays, as it was a phoney war. I was
however home when the first major air raid on the city and East End. My father
took me to see the damage.
Somehow,
I took the School Certificate and passed due to the help of my tutors. As I was
too young still to join the Army (I was only 16) I got a job as a student
apprentice with Fairy Aviation in Hayes, Middx. I was allotted a place at a
workbench and given a file to work on bits of aluminium. I met some excellent
craftsmen but, in spite of it being wartime, the morale was low, due to
stoppages and strikes. However, they were building the 'Fairy Swordfish' which
helped to sink the 'Bismarck' and the successful raid of Toranto Harbour in
Italy. In spite of this, some of the workforce spent time making 'homers' i.e.
bicycles, telescopes, model aeroplanes, which they managed to get through the
guards at the gates. I decided this was not the life for me, and left.
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